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I have read so much. I have watched so many healing Youtube videos. I have spent many hours in counselling. I have spent hours on my knees in prayers. I have written hundreds of pages in my journals... All of this trying to solve the Problem of the Narcissist. And as much as I have 'solved'...there is so much more to be solved. But as the fog has lifted in the last couple of years since I have gone No-Contact, a lot of clarity has landed, THANK YOU, JESUS! And one of the BIG

Yes, you read that correctly. I'm not asking if your family is IN a cult...although that discussion will certainly come later. I'm asking if your family IS a cult. Some hints to look for based on my personal experience: Firstly, cults are "high control". Families can certainly be high control. However, controlling parents don't necessarily mean culty parents. I have observed parents who are on the controlling side that I wouldn't describe as running their own little cult. I p

I have a rather diabolical auto-immune disease. It attacks my spine, my internal organs, my eyes, and seems to be currently spreading to my ankles. The main 'goal' of this disease is to turn my ligaments and tendons to bone. The pain can be breathtaking. There is no cure. There are treatments to slow it down, but those can come with their own side effects. I am so grateful to Jesus that AS OF YET I have never shaken my fists at the heavens, crying out "WHY ME?". I have been a